The "Principle of Deferred Measurement" that N&C mentions is another key insight that I half-assedly reinvented for myself while reading Altenkirch and Grattage's paper "A functional quantum programming language". They make the claim that the really dangerous structural rule about quantum programming is weakening not contraction. The argument being that we can copy around bits (in a chosen basis, at least) all we want to by using a CNOT gate, but weakening, oh no, that induces scary things like measurement and decoherence.
But I don't really buy it. Measurement itself isn't a thing that happens; you can't distinguish weakening the variable right now from simply failing to use it later. The things I'm willing to believe in are quantum circuits consisting of a bunch of qubits starting off in some state, which go through a unitary transformation built up from quantum gates, and then a final measurement according to the Born rule in the computational basis. I don't have to believe in anything else. Deferred measurement says I can replace any measurement with a CNOT in the right basis. "Being in a basis" can be replaced by unitarily transforming the computational basis there and back. Decoherence is not a weird spooky thing that all-of-a-sudden happens, but it's a description of how and when systems are not likely to experience interference effects. Classical bits aren't magically different from qubits (how could they be? Real classical bits are manufactured, after all, in a quantum world) but are just unboundedly entangled, decoherent qubits --- you could never hope to uncompute all their entanglements in order to get them to interfere with themselves again.
It almost begins to make me pissed off that quantum is still taught in such a "mystery-forward" way. Sure, it is weird, and that's part of what makes it a sexy topic, but the "mystery" of measurement collapsing wave-states and so on seems like a total confusion of issues. Though maybe I only think this way because I find many-worlds to be a completely plausible serious metaphysical explanation of the whole business.